Hi everyone, it’s Roslyn, the codependency recovery coach. Thank you for being a part of my community. I’m very grateful and honored to have you here. I also appreciate the feedback you’ve been providing on these videos. They offer everyday tips that we can all use to remind us of different ways of doing things.
Today’s topic revolves around four instances where you might worry about coming across as rude when responding to others. So, let’s dive into them:
Declining an invitation to events or gatherings you’d rather not attend, especially with people you’d rather not be around. Some might perceive this as rude, but it’s essential to be honest with yourself and honor your own needs.
Informing people that an invitation is beyond your budget. It’s perfectly okay to say this, as our financial situations can fluctuate, and it’s better to be upfront than overspend on something you don’t truly want to attend.
Not responding to texts immediately, 24/7. It’s important to respond at your own pace, taking time to think about your reply without feeling pressured to reply instantly. Keep your response concise and to the point.
Practicing emotional honesty. Instead of saying, “I don’t think that,” express your feelings by saying, “I don’t feel that.” This allows you to communicate your emotions without judgment, and others can’t question your feelings.
These four approaches may initially appear as being too blunt or harsh, but more and more people are embracing them. Setting boundaries, saying yes or no based on your true feelings, and using these guidelines in your communication can simplify your life and reduce unnecessary drama. Gone are the days of making up excuses or justifications to get out of commitments.
I hope these insights are helpful. Remember, I offer a 20-minute Discovery call if you’d like to discuss or delve deeper into any of these ideas. I’d love to chat with you. Thanks for tuning in today.
